Lower the Volume and Listen

Need a Personal Tune‑Up?

Warren E. Berkley

Some may call it mechanical aptitude, others intuition—but many men seem to have a built‑in sense for what’s happening under the hood of a car. They can smell trouble in the cooling system, hear when a plug is misfiring, or feel when the wheels are out of alignment. Back before cars were ruled by computer boards, I learned a bit of this myself. Over time, you pick up small hunches, little insights, quiet signals that something isn’t quite right.

Men who know this rhythm also know a simple habit: every now and then, turn off the AC and the stereo and just listen. You might hear something that needs attention.

I remember one cool autumn day when my wife called me from her cell phone. She had turned off the AC and the radio and was a little alarmed—she heard a strange whining sound she’d never noticed before. After a moment of listening, I had to smile. She was hearing the engine.

There’s a lesson tucked inside moments like that.

Lower the volume and listen.

In our personal lives, the noise can get loud—chaotic schedules, competing loyalties, constant demands, pressures that echo in the mind long after the day is done. If we never turn the volume down, we may never notice what’s happening beneath the surface.

Quiet the noise. Listen to what you’re thinking, planning, and feeling. Pay attention to your walk with God—your obedience, your growth, your direction. Face the realities of your life, your choices, and your destiny.

When you turn down the noise and truly listen, you may discover something in your soul that needs a tune‑up.

David understood this practice. In Psalm 119:59 he wrote, “I thought about my ways, and turned my feet to Your testimonies.”

Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is simply slow down, quiet the world, and listen for what God is trying to show you.

The Root

The answer to fear is not courage mustered from the inside. It is proximity to the One who holds the unknown.

Fear · Isaiah 41:10

Fear has a body.

It arrives not only as a thought but as a physical fact — the chest that tightens, the mind that will not stop moving, the sleep that will not come, the morning that opens with dread before a single word has been spoken. The person who has lived in prolonged fear knows that it is not merely psychological. It colonizes. It establishes itself in the body the way a long illness does — not as a visitor but as a resident, shaping the whole of daily life around its presence.

Isaiah 41:10 does not promise a good outcome. That is easy to miss when we quote it.

“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10, ESV)

Isaiah spoke it to Israel, the servant God had chosen and had not cast off (Isaiah 41:8–9). The command assumes they were afraid, and the reason God gave them was Himself.

The reason given is presence. Fear not, for I am with you. Not — fear not, for the thing you are dreading will not happen. Fear not, because I am with you when it does.

The three verbs that follow — I will strengthen, I will help, I will uphold — are all God’s own action, and they point to what He will do inside whatever comes next. The strengthening happens in the weakness. The help arrives in the need. The upholding occurs in the falling.

God does not meet the fear before it arrives. He meets you inside it.

That distinction matters enormously for the person whose feared thing has already come — who is not dreading something in the distance but living in the middle of the thing they could not prevent. That person does not need a promise that the future will be better. They need the presence of the One who is already there with them in it.

I have been inside moments like that. Jesus was the only presence with me, and He got me through.

Here is the question that does not resolve easily but will not leave me alone:

How can we have fear of the unknown when God is the root of our promises and our faith?

The question presses on what the faith is built on. If God is the root — if the promises are His and the faith itself is grounded in His character and His record — what is left for the unknown to threaten? It is unknown to us. It is not unknown to Him, who declares the end from the beginning (Isaiah 46:10). The thing you are dreading has already been seen by the One who holds it. The outcome you cannot calculate has already been accounted for by the One who governs it.

The fear of the unknown is the fear of ungoverned territory. And the faith says there is no ungoverned territory. There is only territory whose governance is not yet visible to us.

That is a different kind of unknown.

Fear feeds on distance.

The further we are from God — from His Word and from His people — the easier it is for fear to consume us. Not because God withdraws. Because we do. And in the distance, the unknown expands. What was manageable close to Him becomes ungoverned and threatening in the space where that closeness has thinned.

Solomon learned this the hard way. The man who had more wisdom, more wealth, more experience of the world’s pleasures than any before or after him — the man who went deep into everything the world could offer and came back with this:

“Vanity of vanities, says the Preacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity.” (Ecclesiastes 1:2, ESV)

Not the cry of a man who had nothing. The cry of a man who had everything and found it insufficient. The Preacher does not say he was afraid. He says all of it was vanity, and that verdict is what makes the distance so dangerous: the person who has gone to everything the world offers has found none of it able to hold the weight of what they were carrying.

Matthew’s Gospel opens by naming Jesus Immanuel, “God with us” (Matthew 1:23, ESV), and it closes with Jesus making the promise Isaiah carried in His own voice, with no end date:

“And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20, ESV)

In Jesus the presence Isaiah promised took on flesh, and He said it would last to the end of the age. The unknown we dread sits inside that always. Whatever arrives, it arrives where He has already promised to be.

Not everything in Isaiah 41 travels to us the same way. The chapter goes on to tell Israel that those incensed against it will be put to shame and that it will thresh the mountains (Isaiah 41:11–16). Those words belonged to the servant God was answering then, and nothing in the text lets us read them as a forecast of our own circumstances. What carries forward in Christ’s own voice is the center of the promise: His presence, to the end of the age.

“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” (2 Timothy 1:7, ESV)

Paul writes this to Timothy, a young man navigating real pressure — the weight of leadership, the possibility of suffering, the temptation to pull back from what the calling required. The spirit given is power, love, and self-control inside the difficulty. The fear is not eliminated by the spirit — it is met by something stronger than the fear.

Power — the capacity to act when fear counsels paralysis. Love — the orientation toward others when fear turns the soul inward. Self-control — the steady, governed mind that keeps its footing when fear fills it with noise.

These are not personality traits. They are the equipment of a person who stays near God. The person far from Him has the same fears and none of the equipment. The person near Him has the same fears and the full provision.

The answer to fear is not courage mustered from the inside. It is proximity to the One who holds the unknown.

Return to the root, as the daily practical choice to stay close to the One who has already seen what you are dreading and is already present in it. The Word that feeds faith. The gathered body that keeps the proximity intact. The prayer that brings the fear directly to the One who meets you inside it rather than managing it from a distance.

To submit all things through prayer and supplication to the Father is the model of Jesus. I must model that daily without respect for the weather. However, as I do this, the storm in the weather, and any adjacent fear, can be swallowed up into comfort if we can hold to the daily practices of our faith.

My relationship with fear is bring it on. Jesus has already conquered all of our fears.

“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can flesh do to me?” (Psalm 56:3–4, ESV)

When I am afraid — not if. The fear is assumed. The psalm describes what happens in the moment of its arrival: trust. The fear is present and the trust is present alongside it, and the trust is the stronger of the two because the One it is directed toward is stronger than the thing being feared.

How can we fear the unknown when God is the root?

We can. We do. But we do not have to stay there. The root is still the root. The proximity is available. The return is possible.

We cannot fear the unknown finally. Not when God is the root. Not when the root holds.

Isaiah 41:10 · Isaiah 46:10 · Ecclesiastes 1:2 · Matthew 1:23 · Matthew 28:20 · 2 Timothy 1:7 · Psalm 56:3–4 (ESV)


Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. ESV Text Edition: 2016.

Drafted with AI assistance from Herbert Berkley’s own words and reviewed by him.

“A Whole New Level”

FROM Ordinary: Sustainable Faith in a Radical, Restless World by Michael S. Horton —

“We’ve become accustomed to looking around restlessly for something new, the latest and greatest, that idea or product or person or experience that will solve our problems, give us some purpose, and change the world. Although we might be a little jaded by the ads, we’re eager to take whatever it is ‘to a whole new level.’

Sometimes, chasing your dreams can be ‘easier’ than just being who we are, where God has placed you, with the gifts he has given to you.

American Christianity is a story of perpetual upheavals in churches and individual lives. Starting with the extraordinary conversion experience, our lives are motivated by a constant expectation for The Next Big Thing. We’re growing bored with the ordinary means of God’s grace, attending church week in and week out.

Doctrines and disciplines that have shaped faithful Christian witness in the past are often marginalized or substituted with newer fashions or methods. The new and improved may dazzle us for the moment, but soon they become ‘so last year’.”

Philippians, Introduction

Philippians: And The Context of Joy

This is a pre-publication draft of the opening chapter of a book that should be published later this year or early next year.

By Warren E. Berkley

~ Introduction ~

Philippians may be one of the most quoted books in the New Testament. And the subject or theme that dominates the letter is joy. That makes sense. Paul was confined by Roman authorities and yet repeatedly expressed the joy of his active faith in Christ. We may, therefore, regard Philippians as an essay on the subject of joy.

But let’s slow down and review that conclusion. In this book I want to emphasize that joy in Philippians has a context. And the only way to have an authentic understanding of joy in Philippians and joy as it should be in the life of a Christian is, to see joy in the comprehensive context written by the Holy Spirit through Paul.

Here’s an example of why this is so important. A shallow perception of joy in Philippians (and throughout the New Testament is): Avoid everything negative. This is the interpretation that may be tempting when you read Philippians 4:4, “rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.” Does this teach us to maintain an outer emotion of joy with such dogmatic consistency, that we never admit anything negative? Is this a “happy-go-lucky” sunny disposition, no matter what?

According to the Online Etymology Dictionary, “Happy-go-lucky” originated in England during the late 17th century (circa 1670s) to describe a haphazard, risky, or “come what may” attitude, rather than a cheerful disposition. It evolved from the older phrase “happy-be-lucky” (1630s), with the modern meaning of a carefree, easy-going person emerging in the early 19th century. 

Is this the “joy” Paul wrote about in Philippians?

NO. Paul maintained more than a superficial emotion of “joy.” He embraced a deep and abiding pleasure in serving Christ and living with the hope that is the promise of the gospel. However, it did not keep him from dealing truthfully and directly with sin and error. The joy Paul encouraged Christians in Philippi to embrace did not mean being blind to the realities of life under the sun. It really means that life under the sun doesn’t cancel joy for those who live in Christ.   

For Paul, joy was not a plaque on the wall, a song with Silas in jail, or a repeated word in a letter. It was more than an occasional emotional outburst or an unnatural smile while in pain. Packed into this joy was obedient trust in Christ, hope grounded in that trust and contentment he learned to cherish no matter the outward circumstances (4:11). And …

… This joy did not rule out dealing very directly with sin and error. Indeed, the fuller context of his joy in Christ made it necessary to respond as written in chapter three: “…I have often told you and now tell you even with tears [that many] … walk as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their end is destruction, their god is their belly, and they glory in their shame, with minds set on earthly things,” (3:16-19).  Commitment to Christ and the joy of that commitment prompted Paul to issue warnings like this, exposing sin and error; not just in this letter.

It was with this joy in the heart of Paul, the imprisoned apostle, that he wrote to Christians in Philippi. Paul’s life circumstance combined with the words of this epistle and the others he wrote, supply necessary context to the joy so prominent in this epistle.

This joy was shared by Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus. And this letter was sent to all the saints in Christ Jesus who are at Philippi, with the overseers and deacons. Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. – Phil. 1:1,2

The emphasis of this book is on the context of joy.

Just look down through the opening verses (Phil. 1:3-11). The joy in the Philippian epistle means and includes:

  • Good memories, 1:3
  • Praying, 1:4
  • Partnership in the gospel, 1:5
  • Good work, 1:6
  • Completion at the day of Jesus Christ, 1:6
  • “Partakers with me of grace,” 1:7
  • The affection of Jesus Christ, 1:8
  • Love abounding more and more, 1:9
  • Approving what is excellent, 1:10
  • Being pure and blameless for the day of Christ, 1:10b
  • Being filled with the fruit of righteousness, 1:11
  • All of these components of joy: “To the glory and praise of God,” (1:11b)

The joy that is repeated several times in this epistle is not a noncontingent joy that is unattached to anything else. It isn’t just something you claim, talk about, wear or enforce. It isn’t based on circumstances. It isn’t an occasional burst of happiness. It isn’t humanly fabricated. Artificial Intelligence cannot duplicate it.

The joy that characterizes this letter is defined in this letter and that definition is supplemented by everything before and after Philippians.

Let’s understand it!

When the Crowd Gets There First

After a hard day’s work of demanding effort there is a place that I long for that is only a moment. It’s just a moment to stop, to cease, to let go, to be still for the sake of being still, sometimes for sanity. And then the ask comes. Not from one place but from several places. Sometimes simultaneously. From my wife, from my daughters, even sometimes the cats. We let go of our moment and give more than we think we have. Sometimes our body language, our sighing, our short words tell a story that rises above that moment of quietness. It screams something deeper and honestly less holy than we often consider. There is a cost when we let go grudgingly of what we want to do in a moment, and it is often the people around us who pay it.

Mark records a day when rest was planned and did not arrive on schedule:

“The apostles returned to Jesus and told him all that they had done and taught. And he said to them, ‘Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.’ For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat. And they went away in the boat to a desolate place by themselves. Now many saw them going and recognized them, and they ran there on foot from all the towns and got there ahead of them. When he went ashore he saw a great crowd, and he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. And he began to teach them many things.” (Mark 6:30–34, ESV)

Mark takes the need for rest seriously. The invitation came from Jesus Himself, and Mark gives the reason: the apostles had no leisure even to eat. Then the plan meets a crowd. Mark does not tell us whether they rested at all during the crossing. He records what Jesus saw when He went ashore, and why He had compassion: the people were like sheep without a shepherd. The Lord who had just called His apostles to rest answered the crowd’s need by teaching them many things. Both needs were real.

We are often tired. Scripture does not ask us to pretend otherwise. What matters is what we see when the voices calling our name reach us before our rest does. We can see interruptions, or people running up a debt against our patience. We can also see the people we love, each with a need of their own, whether or not the timing suits us.

Paul comes at the same moment from another direction. Writing to a church that prized its spiritual gifts, he insisted that even the most impressive activity without love amounts to nothing, and then he described what love looks like in practice:

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” (1 Corinthians 13:4–7, ESV)

“Not irritable or resentful” speaks to the short words. We can complete exactly what was asked and still answer in a way that makes someone reluctant to ask again. It would be easier to be judged by what we did, since we did give more than we thought we had. Paul never mentions sighing, and a sigh can mean nothing worse than exhaustion. But when the sigh or the short word carries resentment, his description of love reaches it. Then the tone reveals the source.

If we are honest, what the sighing and the short words are screaming is leave me alone right now. Needing a few minutes alone is not the problem; Mark has already shown us that. But we can need those minutes and still be wrong in how we ask for them, and when the asking comes out as resentment, the people we love are the ones who feel it. Paul explains what controls his own life, and he roots it in Christ’s love, death, and resurrection:

“For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died; and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.” (2 Corinthians 5:14–15, ESV)

Christ died for all so that those who live would no longer live for themselves but for Him, and that purpose reaches us even at the end of a day of giving, when all we wanted was a moment. The resentment that sometimes rides along with our need insists on its own way, and Paul has already told us that love does not. Each person calling our name is someone for whom He died.

None of this means every request must be met the instant it is made. The same Lord who had compassion on the crowd had first called His apostles away to rest. Scripture does not give us a set of steps here, but love might look something like this. We can ask someone to wait without making them feel guilty for asking, by saying honestly that we need a few minutes and asking whether it’s urgent. If it isn’t, we come back when we said we would. When our answer has already come out sharp, we can own it plainly without offering our tiredness as the excuse, rather than leaving the people around us to carry the hurt.

I’ve gone back to the person — my wife, my children — when I am short, when I am impatient, when I am frustrated, and asked them to forgive me. I ask God to forgive me too and pray for more of what’s needed in the heart to not get lost in these moments.

The Shepherd stepped off the boat, saw the crowd that had beaten Him to the shore, and had compassion on them. He is the same Lord who died so that we would no longer live for ourselves. Going back to the people we hurt, and to God, is part of learning to live for Him.

Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. ESV Text Edition: 2016.

Drafted with AI assistance from Herbert Berkley’s own words and reviewed by him.

HOLINESS DISRUPTED (New Book)

I’ve just received my copy of the newly published Holiness Disrupted: Counter‑formation in the Digital Age. Having followed the author’s life and work for many years, I’m grateful—and delighted—to commend this book as a needed alarm for our time. It is a clear, Scripture‑anchored call to pay attention to the ways our digital habits can quietly erode the holiness Christ died for us to have.

Artificial intelligence, for instance, is simply a tool. And like any tool, it can build or it can break. Technology is a hammer: capable of constructing, delivering, and strengthening—but also capable of distracting, addicting, and destroying. This book offers a crisp, well‑supported guide to cultivating wiser discipline in how we use computers, phones, apps, screens, and the online world that surrounds us.

I’m thankful for David King’s insightful preface, where he observes, “The challenge we now face is learning how to adapt to this new world in a responsible manner…” His words frame the urgency of the book perfectly.

Published by Gospel Armory—with their usual excellence in formatting and design—this volume is worthy of your attention. I wholeheartedly recommend Holiness Disrupted, written by my son, Herb Berkley. (Ordering links are provided below.)